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The Quiet Power of Getting Dressed
by Beth Smith
Most of us don't think much about getting dressed. It becomes a routine rather than a moment. We stand in front of the closet, hoping something fits well enough, because finding clothing that truly fits can feel impossible. After years of trying on jeans that gape at the waist, dresses that pull across the bust, and sleeves that never seem to land at the right spot, many of us settle for "good enough." And we start to believe that a perfect fit is for someone else.
But I've come to believe that getting dressed is a moment with far more influence than we give it credit for. Clothing affects not just how we look, but how we feel, how we move through the world, and even how others respond to us. Emphasizing this can help us see dressing as a source of personal power and confidence.
Confidence Begins with Comfort
When I talk to women about clothes, the conversation almost always leads to confidence. We all want to feel good in what we wear, yet many of us settle for pieces that feel acceptable rather than ones that reflect who we are. Clothing should support us, not distract us. It should bring joy. And yes, it should help us step into our day with energy and presence, reminding us of our worth.
Some people say clothing is superficial. I don't believe that. Clothing is one of the first languages we speak, long before we open our mouths. We communicate identity, creativity, intention, and confidence without saying a word. When we feel good in what we're wearing, that feeling radiates outward. People notice the energy before they notice the fabric.
The Case for Color
There are small, practical ways to shift how we feel in our clothes, and none of them require starting over. Color is one of the easiest places to begin. Walk through almost any store, and you'll notice the same palette appearing again and again. Black, beige, gray, and more black. Neutrals can be elegant, but when they dominate a wardrobe, outfits can start to blend together. Adding color can instantly change how you feel. A scarf with an unexpected pattern, a bold necklace, earrings with texture, or even a beautiful pair of shoes can bring an outfit back to life. These little touches invite curiosity and help unlock personal style that may have been tucked away under practicality or routine, empowering women to express their individuality.
Why Fit Matters
Fit is one of the most transformative aspects of clothing because when it truly fits, it boosts confidence and comfort.
Clothing that fits well often lasts longer because the fabric and stitching aren't being stressed beyond what they're designed to withstand. And when something feels good, we treat it differently. We take care of it. We reach for it intentionally. We wear it with confidence.
Recently, a client brought me a beautiful dress from a well-known retailer. She loved the fabric and the style, but every time she put it on, she took it right back off. The waist didn't sit in the right place. The hem felt awkward. The proportions were close, but not quite right. Instead of giving up on it, we transformed it. We removed the bodice from the skirt and created a two-piece outfit with a cropped button-down top and a skirt that sat exactly where she wanted it to. When she returned, she told me she couldn't believe how many compliments she received. The garment didn't change. Her connection to it did.
Investing in Yourself
For women who are ready for an even more profound shift, custom clothing can be a beautiful next step. Custom garments aren't about excess or perfection. They are about honoring your body as it is, celebrating your identity, and choosing clothing that reflects who you are instead of who the clothing industry assumes you should be.
Developing personal style takes curiosity and a little patience. It means asking what you truly love, rather than defaulting to what's trending. It may mean trying silhouettes you've never considered or rediscovering textures and colors you've always been drawn to. The reward is a wardrobe that feels intentional, timeless, and deeply personal.
A Daily Ritual of Self-Respect
Getting dressed each morning can be a small act of self-respect. A quiet reminder of your worth before anyone else has a chance to define your day. When you feel good in your clothing, the world responds. Doors open. Opportunities appear. Confidence becomes visible.
You deserve clothing that fits, that feels beautiful, and that reflects the real you. Not only for special occasions. Every day.
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